---
title: "Remember the Lemons"
description: "Show attention to the individual."
canonical: https://tomsharman.com/bookshelf/superfans/remember-the-lemons/
updated: 2026-11-03
---

# Remember the Lemons

> Show attention to the individual.

Pat Flynn's framework, from Superfans, pp. 131 to 168.

Framework 9 of 15 from [Superfans](https://tomsharman.com/bookshelf/superfans/index.md) by Pat Flynn. Category: Content and packaging.

## The steps

1. **Follow people back.** Notice who engages regularly.
2. **Scan their profiles.** See what they post about: family, pets, hobbies.
3. **Ask about it.** Mention something specific you noticed next time they engage.

## Where it comes from

From chapter: Part 3: Connected Community to Superfans, pp. 131–168

## The animation

24 seconds, 4:5, no sound.

- MP4: https://tomsharman-downloads-006143767029.s3.eu-north-1.amazonaws.com/downloads/bookshelf/superfans/remember-the-lemons.mp4
- MP4, dark: https://tomsharman-downloads-006143767029.s3.eu-north-1.amazonaws.com/downloads/bookshelf/superfans/remember-the-lemons-dark.mp4
- Still: https://tomsharman-downloads-006143767029.s3.eu-north-1.amazonaws.com/downloads/bookshelf/superfans/remember-the-lemons.png
- Still, dark: https://tomsharman-downloads-006143767029.s3.eu-north-1.amazonaws.com/downloads/bookshelf/superfans/remember-the-lemons-dark.png